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A $10.00 Christmas Gift That Will Become a Family Treasure
I have a wonderfully dear friend who belongs to the upper crust of Palm Desert. For 12 years I've fought with myself over what to buy for this great man that he doesn't already have or would really use.
This year, I decided to do something truly special for him. Something that will touch him deeply (since he's the sensitive sort who treasures family and friends). Something he will put away in to a special trunk and save for his old age.
I purchased a beautiful hard bound journal for a mere $10.00 at the stationary store....and I began writing. To make it easier, I made a check list of all of the events we have shared to keep me on track.
Things like meeting him for the first time, what a treasured time it was to have him walk me down the aisle when I married my husband Dana, remembering our long talks together.
I started with the day we met and how I had no clue that we would become such close friends. Every little thought about that meeting that came in to my head, I jotted down. I wrote as if I were writing him a very long letter.
As I wrote, more thoughts came in to my head. Like the time he flew my girlfriend and I to their beautiful Palm Desert home to surprise his wife with her two best friends for her birthday. Or like the time we met him and his wife Laurie in Las Vegas and were awakened in the middle of the night by fire alarms at Caesar's Palace and had to dash out in to a dreadful storm only to go back in through the lobby to find we were the ONLY floor that happened to! (It was a false alarm).
I described my feelings of deep friendship for him and wrote about all of his most wonderful qualities. Before I knew it, the book was filled with memories we've both treasured over the past 12 years of our friendship.
I then began adding cut out and glued photos to the book. Visual memories of our times together. Stickers of colorful phrases like "Friends Forever". A rose bush still blooms in my yard and I picked buds and have pressed them within the pages.
When I told his wife what I had done, she simply said: "Aw, he's going to just LOVE that!".
And I know that he will.
For you, consider doing the same for your husband. Romantic memories of times you've shared. How you felt the day he proposed. The emotions you shared when your first child was born.
Make one for your grown daughter, giving her details about things you remember about her grandparents, aunts, uncles, family history. How it felt to watch her get married.
For your younger child, consider writing about the day they were born, how you felt, how you treasured this new life and how much they have been loved their whole life. Write meaningful things and memories that will stick with them...things they might have never known. Remind them of funny things they have done that made you laugh. I'll bet it something they still have in their 40's and beyond.
For your parents, write of how it was growing up with them and various memories you had as a child of them, of family outings, holidays or vacations together.
Memories have no price tag. They cost nothing to reproduce. But the emotion they evoke is absolutely priceless. And the gift will be one that will always be a reminder to them of your closeness.
I am one that keeps every meaningful card from family and friends. I rarely keep the ones that are simply signed with a name, but rather, the ones that have a hand written note with sentiment that really means something to me. Those are truly special. Those I will keep forever. And what I wouldn't give to be given such a journal as a gift. I think it's one of the most loving things you can do.